How Does Manifestation Work? We will learn how can you manifest someone into Your Life with an explanation. Do you believe that a single thought can be turned into a reality? It may sound like a thought coming straight from a science fiction movie, but this is exactly what happens with manifestation. The hype about this amazing process has been building up for the past two decades, and many used to believe that it is nothing but a hoax until now.
Now, when someone says that you can visualize your ideal life and make it a reality, people might say that it is too good to be true. But it is because they are not aware of the real process. In this post, I will be telling you what exactly manifestation is and how you can achieve that.
Let’s get started.
What Is Manifestation? How Does it Works?
So for those of you who have no clue whatsoever about manifestation, let me explain it to you in the simplest terms possible! If you are into books, then probably you have heard about it in Rhonda Byrne’s 2006 bestseller The Secret, or maybe you found an Instagram or TikTok reel on the internet. Well, irrespective of how you came to know about it, the basic ideal will always be the same. According to experts, it is something like,
Manifestation is intentionally creating your reality through your beliefs and actions.
As per experts, we human beings are continuously manifesting whether we like it or not. So, it is better to take control of that power and use it to make some positive changes. Since we are manifesting all day long, be it intentional or by default is probably up to us, but if you are being conscious and being deliberate about your beliefs, then that is the key.
Let’s try and simplify it even more. Like try and imagine yourself as a magnet that can attract what you are thinking and feeling, and then it leads to the action you take. So, whatever you can see in your reality now are nothing but seeds like the thoughts and emotions; you planted at a certain point in your life and but if you pay close attention, one can see the correlation between your thoughts and what you have currently in your reality.
Here, your emotion works as the guidance system, and when you pay attention to the way you are feeling when you are thinking about something or someone, you can get the indication if you are in the process of attracting something you want or not. So, this way, you can get what you think about regardless of the fact, if you want it or not. The best part about all this is that you can always choose better thoughts, ones that serve you.
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Can You Really Manifest Love?
Yeah, we know what you are thinking; can you get anything you want, like a million dollars and perhaps a private yacht? Well, maybe not, but apart from these things, the one thing that most people want to manifest is nothing else than true love. But whether you will be able to attract a special someone into your life using the process of manifestation or not is something you can have a debate on. Like, there are many people who are likely to dismiss the idea as new-age nonsense, but according to many experts, it can very well work for anyone if they know how to do it.
“You can absolutely manifest love! I did, and 10 years later here we are,”– says Maria Concha; professional manifestation expert.
She also adds that,
“And you can also manifest to strengthen the love you already have if you’re currently in a relationship. The longer you focus upon something or someone, the more powerful it becomes and the stronger your attraction.”
Now, this goes without saying that if you wish to cast a magic spell on your office crush or make that attractive stranger on the train come and ask your number, then you need to think twice or go for something like Voodoo. But, manifestation does have the power to bring a specific person into your life; however, you cannot make them fall truly, madly, deeply in love with you.
“The law of attraction finds others who are offering a similar vibration and brings them into your experience. You can target a specific person which may look like them coming into your life somehow, however, you cannot manifest someone to love you back. You can only manifest for yourself.”Says, Maria Concha.
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How to Manifest a Specific Person Using Scripting?
Now, let’s get down straight to the process. Doing manifesting with the help of scripting is perhaps one of the most preferred ways. Here, I will be telling you the details of the step-by-step process.
Step1: Become Absolutely Clear
You have to imagine yourself as a genie who has the power to make wishes come true. Now, you meet an absolute stranger whose wish is to have a better relationship. So how can you make that wish a reality?
But what if the person had wished to manifest the perfect partner? Or if he wanted a really good friend? Can you tell what the person means exactly?
You or anyone would have a hard time bringing these wishes to life since they are quite vague. And the people wishing for it will also be disappointed by what manifests.
This is the same kind of thing that is applicable to the Law of Attraction as well. You have to have clarity on the details of what you wish to manifest. If you wish to do manifesting with a specific person in your life, the first thing to do is to establish exactly what you want. You cannot let the universe do some guesswork for you.
You need to also take a moment to consider the kind of person you wish to manifest. Some of the points can be
- The type of person you are trying to manifest (partner, spouse, friend, vacation buddy, etc.)
- The core values they have.
- The feeling you get when they are around.
- The way they make you feel.
When you have thought about it enough and have a very clear representation of who you want to manifest in your life, it is time for you to go to the next step.
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Step 2: Brainstorm Ideas
Once you are done identifying the type of person you wish to manifest in your life using the law of attraction, it’s time to brainstorm the ideas on a piece of paper.
You need to write down every single aspect of the clear vision you have created in the previous step, and while writing, you should not restrict yourself. Try to use phrases or bullet points as well; there is no specific rule; you can do whatever feels good to you.
As I have told you in the previous step, you need to be crystal clear about what exactly you wish to manifest. Hence, once you sit to describe your ideal person, you should not forget to add as much detail as you can. Try to include your emotions as well. Once you are done creating a thorough mind map of the person you wish to manifest on, you can go to the next step.
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Step 3: Choose a Scripting Prompt
So, you are clear about the person on whom you wish to manifest, and you have also written down a precise description of them. So, this is the time to start scripting.
As mentioned before, scripting is one of the most preferred and advanced Law of Attraction techniques. It can trick your mind into thinking that what you currently wish for has already become a reality.
To put it simply, scripting is a technique with which you describe in writing your life as if everything is there just like you wanted before starting to manifest. If you can do it correctly, you will have absolutely mind-blowing results, and this is why it is considered one of the most powerful Laws of Attraction tools out there.
There are many articles available on this topic on the internet, and most of them would suggest you do scripting in the present tense. This will give you the sense that whatever you wish to manifest is happening right now.
But if you ask me, then I have something else to say. With my years of experience working with scripting, I have discovered a more effective way of scripting.
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It goes something like this:
If you wish to have the best possible results, then you should always try scripting in the past. You should write as if you are recalling a memory rather than describing something which you think is happening in the “present” moment.
Scripting in the present: You can write about your dream wedding day as if it was happening right now.
Scripting in the past: You just have to recall your wedding day on your 10th wedding anniversary.
Can you understand the difference?
When you do scripting in the past tense, it is always much more powerful. When I started scripting in the past, I could feel the difference as I saw my manifestations come to life crazy fast.
All you need to do is choose some event that you love to remember having done with the person you are targeting to manifest and freely write about it.
To help you start, here are a few scripting prompts that you can choose. However, you can come up with your own:
When manifesting the perfect partner
You can start recalling your wedding day as you and your partner are celebrating your 5th wedding anniversary.
When manifesting the perfect partner
How about looking back at the first Christmas your partner and you had spent together as a family.
When manifesting the perfect partner
How about thinking back at the time your partner proposed to you or vice versa.
When manifesting a best friend
You can try and recall that first amazing trip you took with your friend last summer.
When manifesting a lover
How about thinking that you are at the fag end of your life and the memory you love the most is about that one hot and crazy night you had spent with your lover at a motel back when you were young.
Once you are done choosing or inventing a scripting prompt that inspires you, you can go to the next step.
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Step 4: Script Your Vision
Since you are done selecting the scripting prompt or creating your own one, this is the time to run wild with it. You need to let your imagination run wild and free. You don’t have to overthink as you write. Just let it flow through the nip of your pen. You don’t need to make it a perfect one. It just has to feel amazing.
You just have to write about what you were doing and, most importantly, the feeling you got while doing it. The more details you can add, the better it will be. You just have to really jump into this vision and be one with it to create and feel amazingly good while doing it.
A smile on your face while writing it can also help loads. When you feel good and involved with all the strong emotions, you will be able to raise your vibration and get yourself in alignment with what you are calling in. Believe me, this way; your special someone will surely manifest that much faster.
Once you are done with writing the script, it is time for you to go to the final step.
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Step 5: Just Seal the Deal and Let It Go
Once the scriptwriting is over, you just need to go back to the beginning and start reading out loud what you wrote. You need to indulge yourself in this vision that you have created and truly feel all the emotions associated with it.
Now, take that piece of paper on which you have written everything, put it inside an envelope, and seal it. On top of it, you can write,
“I am manifesting all of this or something even better.”
and then just put the envelope away.
Yes, you read it right; you just have to simply put it away. You need to do re-scripting over and over again. And certainly, there is no need to re-read what you have written.
If you have really felt the amazing magic while scripting, then the magic is already done. You don’t have to come back to it every day. But then what can you do with your envelope?
Well, you can very well place the envelope on your altar, or even by the window in your room, or wherever you feel like. It just has to be a place where you will be able to see it every day. But if you don’t feel alright about it, then you can put the envelope away in a safe place or even burn it.
This way, you will allow your manifestation to go without attachment, thinking and believing that the universe is already working on it and trying to bring that person into your life. If you still keep the envelope, then don’t open it until you manifest your specific person.
Once they are there in your life, you can go back to your envelope, open it and compare how much you have received over what you asked for manifested!
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Other Ways of Manifestation
Apart from the step-by-step process of the scripting method, there are other ways of manifestation as well. All of these, along with scripting, can help you achieve your goals. These steps are more about making the whole process very much effective for you. Let’s look at them one by one.
Affirmations – Speak What You Want to See
I always tell and try to make my clients believe that their words are very powerful, and we need to harness this power for this step. You need to make your words even more powerful by speaking them out loud, and you need to make it a habit or a daily practice.
You just have to come up with statements that support your vision and then turn them into affirmations that you can repeat once, twice, or three times a day. There are many people who prefer doing this while looking at themselves in the mirror. If you are comfortable with that, then it is fine with me.
But what are the affirmations you will speak about? Well, they are nothing but positive statements of faith, and they will be working to attract your desires and also prepare you to receive your love when they come your way. These statements can also help in changing the negative thoughts about yourself into positive ones.
Some examples of positive love affirmations can be:
- I am worthy of all the love in the world.
- I am worthy of living a wonderful love story in my life.
- All my actions will create a relationship built on trust and respect.
- I am the embodiment of that love that I desire to receive.
You can also take some help from a professional manifestation coach to find the right words and use the most effective affirmations for your manifestation.
Try and Act as If Your Soulmate Is Already in Your Life
There is no need for you to try and explain about a make-believe lover to your family and or even to your friends if they haven’t been manifested physically yet. But inside your heart, you should act like your vision has come true.
Just imagine how you might feel if you get a chance to go on a date with the girl of your dreams? Of course, you would be excited and smiling from ear to ear, aren’t you? You just have to get into that mental zone.
Do everything you would normally do, like putting on your favorite perfume or cologne. You should dress your best before going out anywhere like you are going to meet your lover this evening.
There are some people who often go as far as making an extra place at their table as if they are waiting for someone special to come over for dinner. These actions and behavior can work as powerful indicators to the universe that you are ready to receive. But you need to make sure that these actions come before belief, and belief has to come before the actual manifestation.
Stop Thinking about the ‘How’ – Just Have Faith
If you are a logical person, then you would definitely be concerned about the logic – the ‘How’ of this whole process. All the questions like how I will get to meet her? Should I be the one to approach her? Or will she ask me to meet her?
You don’t have to be worried about how the manifestation will happen. If you have a specific vision, then you need to remain positive, and your vision will come true. You don’t have to worry about how it will come?
To relax a bit, you can think of all your favorite real-life love stories. If you think of them in a different way, it may seem that these stories are coincidental. It’s very much likely that they found each other in unexpected places and circumstances.
So, why do something pointless like thinking about the “how”. Do you have any control over the universe? Then why are you bothered about how it will help you manifest the person you want the most in your life?
You just need to release your vision to the universe, speak about it daily and be open to the possibilities that come.
So, these are the things you need to know about before starting to manifest. I guess after reading this; you now have an idea as to where to start. If you have any such personal experience, then do feel free to share that with us in the comments section.
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